Living Beautifully in 2025: Small Daily Habits for a More Elegant Life

January 3rd | Mont Tremblant, Canada

The hush of a January morning always feels like a clean slate, a moment suspended between possibility and quiet reflection. This morning, as I sipped my tea and watched the soft winter light dance across the room, I thought about how true beauty is not found in grand gestures but in the delicate, intentional moments that shape our days. Living beautifully is not about waiting for an occasion—it is about making each day an occasion in itself.

As I set my cup down, I considered the little things that add refinement to my life, the small yet profound rituals that bring a sense of grace to the ordinary. This year, I want to cultivate habits that make elegance a natural rhythm, not an effort.

A Morning of Poise and Purpose

Mornings set the tone for the day ahead, and I am determined to begin mine with a sense of tranquility and refinement. Before reaching for my phone, I take a deep breath and allow myself a few moments of stillness—a moment for prayer and gratitude before the world rushes in.

• Begin the day with beauty: I make my bed each morning as if preparing a room for a beloved guest—crisp sheets, fluffed pillows, and perhaps a small bouquet on the nightstand.

• A well-appointed breakfast: Even though I am not a big breakfast person, a simple tea and nutritious smoothie feel indulgent when served on fine china. I am committed to setting the table.

• Dressing with intention: The way I present myself influences how I move through the world. This year, I am choosing quality over quantity, curating a wardrobe of timeless pieces that reflect grace and ease. Julia Amory could be a great resource.

The Art of Daily Refinement

There is a quiet luxury in tending to the details of one’s life with care. I have always believed that elegance is a matter of attention—to one’s surroundings, to one’s manner, to the way one moves through the day.

• A handwritten note each week: A beautiful letter, thoughtfully penned, is a rare and cherished gesture. I want to revive the lost art of correspondence in my life.

• Savoring moments of stillness: A warm cup of tea in the afternoon, a candle flickering at dusk—small pauses that make life feel more graceful.

• Elevating the home with small touches: Fresh flowers (potted, not cut), polished silver, touches of horticultural prints here and there, and the soft glow of candles in the evening—creating an environment that feels both welcoming and inspiring.

Cultivating Meaningful Connections

Living beautifully is not only about aesthetics but about warmth, kindness, and presence. I want to be more intentional in my relationships, ensuring that those I cherish feel valued and seen, while also letting go of what no longer brings joy to my life.

• Making time for conversation: Whether a phone call, a shared walk, or a leisurely lunch, I want to foster deeper, more thoughtful connections—less texting and more in-person conversations.

• Hosting with ease and grace: Inviting friends for tea or an intimate dinner, creating an atmosphere where they feel both welcome and indulged.

• Expressing gratitude often: A handwritten thank-you note, a heartfelt compliment, a small gift just because, or simply acknowledging the beauty in another—these are the gestures that elevate daily interactions.

Three Things I’m Grateful for Today:

1. The soft glow of morning light filtering through linen curtains.

2. French Onion Soup, isn't it so delicious?!

3. The Mayfair Hall customers and their reviews are outstanding.

Daily Reminders:

• Research Montreal, as we will be visiting soon.

• Choose the recipes I would like to try this weekend. I definitely want to try this cheese soufflé that Chef Eric Ripert shared by Chef Bevone—it looks divine. Also craving a Pavlova, maybe creating a new version of my Christmas Wreath one for Spring?

• Find the best foundation for my skin. Should I try Lisa Eldridge's or go with all Lancôme? I do love using makeup from just one brand. I was using Gucci Westman before but feel like trying something new.

As I step into this new year, I am reminded that beauty is not something to chase but something to cultivate, gently and with intention. May 2025 be a year of quiet luxuries, meaningful connections, and small daily habits that make life more elegant in every way.

Photo Courtesy of Joanna Buchanan. Shop her collection at The Mayfair Hall here.